Help, please? I'm 5 months pregnant, and my husband is shy about intimacy...?!?

Justyna

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Ok, well, I'm 25, and I'm 5 months pregnant. My husband, Patrick, is 26, and very supportive of me. He gets me whatever I need, lets me take naps when I get home from work because I'm exhausted, and makes dinner for me and willingly does whatever else needs to be done around the house. Well, since I got pregnant, my sex drive has been extremely high (Patrick's has always been high, too,) but I have a question... Sometimes Patrick acts funny about having sex with me... Usually he comes to my doctor's appointments with me to see how the baby is doing, but then for a few days after, he'll seem sort of scared to have sex. I think he's scared he'll hurt me or the baby. I told him he won't, but he still seems afraid. He's sort of shy about it; for those few days after my appointment, he'll be really shy every time I'm turned on, and if I ask him how come, he just sort of mumbles something and turns sort of red. After about a week, he'll have sex with me without much hesitation, but for those few days, he's sort of shy about intimacy. I don't understand... What's going on? How come he's like this? And what should I do to make him feel better...?

Oh, and by the way, I was worried at first that he wasn't attracted to me now, but I can feel and see him get hard, so that's not it, but he still shies away from intimacy during those few days...
 
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