? Snowbunny ?
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Ok, so I've been dating my boyfriend, Chris, for about 10 months, now. I'm 16, and he's 17, but we were friends for years before we started dating (we were little kids.) Well, we both really love each other (and YES, it is love. Don't tell me we can't be in love just because we're young,) and we both felt very strongly about not having sex until marriage (we were both virgins), but decided about 8 months ago to have sex. Well, it's always good, but the only thing I can say is that sometimes I wish he were actually a little more... rough, I guess. He's the sweetest guy (and he can be a bit timid at times, too), and he always thinks of me, first... He's extremely gentle, and considerate, and caring, and don't get me wrong, I love it. (I'd MUCH rather have that than a guy who only cares about satisfying himself.) But sometimes I wish he were a bit more... untamed... in bed. You know? He's just always so gentle about everything, and sometimes, I tend to like a bit more... animalistic behavior in the bedroom. So howcome he's always so calm and gentle? Is it because he's a bit shy, sometimes? (He's not shy about anything else, since I've known him forever, but mainly just about sex.) Or what? And how can I change that? How can I get him to be a little more animalistic? What should I do?
Thanks
By the way, I can also be a bit shy about these sort of things... so please don't just say "Tell him," because, although I could, I wouldn't really prefer actually discussing it... So I'd like to know what I could actually DO (other than talking to him about it) to change that?
Thanks
By the way, I can also be a bit shy about these sort of things... so please don't just say "Tell him," because, although I could, I wouldn't really prefer actually discussing it... So I'd like to know what I could actually DO (other than talking to him about it) to change that?