were seperated and he wants to decide the unborn babys name...ALL OF THEM...he wants a key to my place to come and go as he pleases...he wants me to be at his beck and call...he wants to keep me waiting for him for an unknown amount of time....he wants me to change myself before he comes back....if i make him mad he wont talk to me for days or weeks.....he blames me literally for all the problems. every time i try to protest he shuts me down and walks away from the conversation...he always gets what he wants.he wont commit to anything to help me whether its money or something else. i just want our family to stay together.....i dont want to live liket this though.
my own husband wont live with me because i'm not good enough and that is basically what he says and how he feels. he even has me programed in his phone by my first name.
he was making jokes that my vagina will look all wierd and lose after child birth....it made me feel like he wouldnt want to have sex with me again...and i worry if will become lose.
i really dont want him in the delivery room...he wants to be there because it is his "first experience" and he said nothing more. i worry he will forever make fun of me to his friends if i crap on the delivery table or look bad during contractions and make funny noises in my pain....this is all just a big joke to him. (the "man" is in his early 30's).
i'm bringing his child into the world and i feel like a pregnant dog instead to him.
does all of this sound controlling to you?
my own husband wont live with me because i'm not good enough and that is basically what he says and how he feels. he even has me programed in his phone by my first name.
he was making jokes that my vagina will look all wierd and lose after child birth....it made me feel like he wouldnt want to have sex with me again...and i worry if will become lose.
i really dont want him in the delivery room...he wants to be there because it is his "first experience" and he said nothing more. i worry he will forever make fun of me to his friends if i crap on the delivery table or look bad during contractions and make funny noises in my pain....this is all just a big joke to him. (the "man" is in his early 30's).
i'm bringing his child into the world and i feel like a pregnant dog instead to him.
does all of this sound controlling to you?