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lzrdking2000
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So these guys at my highschool are starting a mountain biking team, and they really want me to join. I'm stuck though cuz I'm not sure If I should do this or not. I mean it could be fun, but its a huuuugggee commitment. Like 4 practices a week, and races on sunday, and heavy conditioning till june! I mean, I've gotten myself into many commitments in the past, and I just gotta learn to say no sometimes, y'know? I'm not sure whether this team will be coached by a fellow student, but thats not the problem. It's just that I really don't know If I'm up for commiting to this. The positives would be that I would make new friends possibly, and i only say that cuz these guys never show much interest in me anyway at school. And it might be fun. The negatives are that I might just be like ****. what did i just get myself into?!! And end up hating it, and loathing going to practice. But if I say no, which I think I'm going to. For I really don't feel like joining, how do I do it? I mean these people were already considering me a member, but I gotta do this for myself. How do I say no, without being a total douche and not acting like a pus sy who is just whimping out?