Help! Creepy Friend!?

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calmlikeatimebomb

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Tell her that you have boundaries and her following you, touching you, writing hearts or anything else on your belongings and etc is making you feel like she needs psychiatric help for attachment issues. Tell her that you feel like she treats you like a possession and that she sub consciously is bullying and manipulating to satisfy her own personal agenda without consideration for you and others and she's taking this to very dangerous psychotic levels akinned to passive/aggressive people and you don't want to hurt her but you just want to breath and feel safe and comfortable and you deserve human comfort,freedom and personal space. Tell her she needs to get some help so she can keep in a positive zone that makes people want to flock to her not run from her. She needs ways to build healthy bounds where everyone feels comfortable and are safe around each other.
 
Ok so I made friends with this girl last year , we sat next to each other in Math. I was nice to her and anyway we carried on being friends. After a while she got a little attached and kinda over stepped the boundary of space, so i pulled away and she got a little better! This year she took 2 of the same classes as me (Bio + Phys) I have no one else in these classes that I know. This year she has become so attached that I cant go anywhere without her following me and when i go somewhere she has to know where. One day in Phys class I caught her staring at me but pretended that I never saw and a few seconds later she wrote on my book "I *heart* u". I thought i was just being stupid but then she did it again (staring) and then said " What are you thinking about?" So I was like "nothing" and she said " No it cant be nothing" and now she hugs me like every 2 minutes and she doesnt give me space at all. There were a few other creepy incidents where she makes comments like "I like ur button" (on my jeans!). I tried to ignore it and then one day she put her hand on my thigh and she said "I like ur pantyhose " and said that I should wear them for pilates as tights. I said No! you can see through them!!! And she said no it would look sexy!!!!!!
People keep telling me she acts weird and that i have a stalker! I have tried to tell her indirectly but she is not getting it! She is extremely sensitive and will cry and act enraged about me to my friends (shes done it before)
How do I tell her and what do I do????!!!!!! I am very creeped!
Thanx for ur answers
I thought about the lesbian thing so
I emphasize how much I like guys and slipped it in convos here and there
Hoping she got the msg!!!!
 
Tell her to back off. even if she crys, dont give in. Tell her like it is and be like LEAVE ME ALONE! transfer out of the class if its getting really bad where you can bear her anymore
 
ummm awkward
tell her you just want to be friends and nothing more.
tell her how unconformable it makes you.
also tell her to give you some space.
aparently your a girl?
tell your your not that way. (if you know what i mean)

PS: BE NICE
 
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