help. boyfriend still won't have sex with me.. :( very confused?

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There is nothing wrong with me, plenty of people would like to have me. my boyfriend is a germaphobe- not that i am gross- and he is .. afraid of sex. he is 20 and i am 19. i have tried to leave him once before because I feel like sex is somthing i need in a relationship, but he had a complete breakdown. since that, we have tried a few things, but it is obvious he isn't interested. im 19.. i feel like im in my prime and i need to take advantage of it. other than sex, my bf and i are a perfect match. I'm not too sure what I should do, but I am having some strong urges to cheat on him... any suggestions? I don't want to break his heart, but this is really hard for me too.
we have been together for 4 years........
 
If you would say all that to him i am sure he will understand you, and if he still does not want to than other things should be considerated. 1) he might have something to be ashamed of. 2) he maybe really shy 3) i should not be saying this but he might not like sexualy, which is wierd but happens. If it does not happend in your next 2 tries than you should not be togather. You are 19 and you need to have an active, healthy sexual life. But talk to him and say everything you said in the above question before you take any action.

Best of luck
Eagle's advice.
 
your a dumbass, maybe hes saving himself for marriage, hes embarassed, or he just doesnt want tohave sex w/ you. sorry!
 
Stop pressuring him and he'll come around....
DONT CHEAT!!
JUST DONT DO IT!

Please answer my most recent question!
 
If he doesn't want to have sex with you, he won't. Don't cheat on him for sex, that's just wrong. If sex is the most important thing to you in a relationship, no offense, but you should get your priorities straight.
 
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