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i need advice...i dont know what else to do. I have been married for a little over a year, however the first year has been total hell. Full of arguements, blame and sheer misery. My husband made a few bad decisions in life which led to bankruptcy. i thought i would be fine but i am not. we got married and he didnt have any money for the wedding so i had to borrow it. my father paid for the entire wedding which i feel terrible about.
My husband since then has only just managed to pay for our rent. he has not any money to take me out, or to help me with my debts of trying to repay others for helping us out.
His side of the family doesnt assist...i just feel terrible that my side has had to foot the bill and continue to do so.
he said he has big plans and he is working on them, however i am struggling with this debt.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..i am so bitter and feel so much hatred towards him for putting me in this situation...what do i do....
i have asked him to get a job...he saids he is trying...but i just dont see it..
These days the smallest things will trigger a reaction out of me. I respond to his remarks quite bluntly and really tear him apart with my bluntness.
please help...i cannot cope....i feel so let down...so alone.
i do appreciate your comments...please continue.
i left my job a few months years ago to start my little clothing business. it has been going great..but with so much debt...its just too hard
most of my bills are his bills ..money that i have helped him with..
My husband since then has only just managed to pay for our rent. he has not any money to take me out, or to help me with my debts of trying to repay others for helping us out.
His side of the family doesnt assist...i just feel terrible that my side has had to foot the bill and continue to do so.
he said he has big plans and he is working on them, however i am struggling with this debt.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..i am so bitter and feel so much hatred towards him for putting me in this situation...what do i do....
i have asked him to get a job...he saids he is trying...but i just dont see it..
These days the smallest things will trigger a reaction out of me. I respond to his remarks quite bluntly and really tear him apart with my bluntness.
please help...i cannot cope....i feel so let down...so alone.
i do appreciate your comments...please continue.
i left my job a few months years ago to start my little clothing business. it has been going great..but with so much debt...its just too hard
most of my bills are his bills ..money that i have helped him with..