He won't have sex with me cause he says I won't know what I'm doing, is this?

Lane

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(1) true? (2) selfish?

I am a virgin (25 years old) and my boyfriend is 35 and is experienced. He says he can't have sex with me cause I won't know what I'm doing and I need to go and get experience before we are together.

I feel like sex doesn't make you good at sex, you would be good because you are loving, intuitive, adventurous, spontaneous etc etc, not from practice, is this true?

Also this seems selfish and strange from his part, what do you think?

He actually does want me to sleep with someone else first. He says he doesn't want to deal with the virginity and that I'm too old to be a virgin at this stage and it's abnormal.
 
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