He wont get tested, but wants to have sex.?

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haley yahhh :D

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I'm not a big fan of condoms..
AT ALL.
ahah.
I'm on birth control, and my boyfriend of nine months is just now pushing the sex factor.
I'm okay with having sex with him, IF he gets tested.
but he wont, he says theres no point and I need to trust him.
I'm a smart girl, and I'm not doing anything with him until he gets tested.
but how can I convince him to go and get tested without starting a fight or anything.
 
It could be your life for entire night of passion. You are a smart girl stick to your guns. As far as you should trust him, he should respect you enough to do it to ease your mind.
 
If you don't trust him, why are you ok having sex with him?

Ether you trust him, or you don't. He's told you it's ok. Why are you pushing that he gets tested?

If my partner had asked the same of me after 9 whole months I would have dumped him. My word should be enough.
 
first i i think you needd to chill ...and u prob allready had a fight and ur gonna have more fights on this subject...ur gonna have to push him to get tested until he does...if he doesnt = no sex...simple
 
you have to stick to your guns kiddo. simply state the fact, you will not engage in sex with him until and unless you see a lab report that shows him free of std. if he can't do that much for you, then he isn't much of a boyfriend and I wouldn't even consider going to bed with him.
 
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