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I had been not really taking a guy seriously who had been pursuing me for a while because there was something about him I didn't trust. A mutual friend repeatedly told me that he was serious about me and so after about a year I decided to go on a date with him. Our first few dates went fine and we spoke a few times over the phone. Shortly after he told me he wanted me to to be his girlfriend and I told him we should slow down a bit and we did. The next weekend we hung out and he wanted to have sex I told him I only have sex with a guy who is my boyfriend but we kept making out. He asked again and I repeated that I only have sex with boyfriends but this time he said we were dating. So we spoke about it for a while and we agreed to start dating later that night we had sex. The next morning we had breakfast and I went home. After that I got NO CALLS. NO NOTHING. The next time I saw him was at a mutual friends party and we started communicating once in a while again but no sex. A few weeks ago at another mutual friends party he saw other guys flirt and dance with me and then he came up to me and asked me why I was being such a flirt and to stop flirting with his friend. We went outside to talk and he started feeling on me and we made out( I was drunk he wasn't but I kissed him because I wanted to he didnt force me or anything) then afterwards some how my ride left without me so he offered I sleep over I did and you guessed we had sex. The next day we spoke for a bit. After that we hung out a few times but he just kind of ignored me unless another guy was in the picture. His friends and brother told me when we first started talking that he really liked me and now I don't know what the f**** is going on. I got frustrated and tired of feeling like a lost puppy and stopped all communication with him. So my question is why did he play me? If he wanted to have casual sex he could of just said so and I would of decided if I wanted to or not. Instead he played games with my feelings and then pays attention to me at random a** times. I don't think he is into me and its bothers me but I've come to accept it.