He thinks that i'm stupid having sex....what can i do?

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Adriana Gabriela M

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yesterday was my first time having sex... well, i couldn't do it because when i saw my boyfriend's body naked , and he looking to me too, i felt scared... i'm virgin yet, but I'm a little bit worried about what he thinks... i'm pathetic, Cus he maybe thought that i'm a stupid girl... i love him... and he's a handsome boy...maybe he laugh about my behavior on the bed......... i'm stupid, help me please. he is the most popular guy of my school, he's the team basketball leader....you know, i'm nervous. help!!!!
i'm 16 years old only..
but i'm scared because i'm a good girl and my parents trusted on me.... my lawfather is a powerful person, he's rich... and if i tell him what's happen he can fell sad...and kill to my boyfriend. i'm having a secret dating a long time, i live in california los angeles ,tell me. thanks
 
"he is the most popular guy of my school, he's the team basketball leader"

I've got to say it, this is disturbing

that fact that you want to have premarital sex cause he's handsome and popular is a disstressing signal

I know that it'd be stupid to say the reasons not to have sex because of religious people cause so many unfortunatly lack any sherd of faith

how about the fact you could get a STI, pregnant, cause yourself emotional harm, or even get arrested depending on how old you are


My answer: Dont have sex, if he dosnt like that, leave him. Remember, he wont be that popular in a few years time, then he'll be like the rest of us
Please dont let people walk over you, make a smart decision and most of all STAND UP FOR YOURSELF

there's my advice, I really hope you take it
 
You are not stupid! Don't have sex with him. This was your warning that you are not ready. Please have a little more respect for yourself then to think you should do it because he is popular or anything.
 
yeah i agree how r u still a virgin if yesterday was your first time having some type of sexual intercourse with ur boyfriend all i can say is you shouldnt reallly think much of what he thinks it was ur first time its common for a virgin not to know what to do!!!
 
If he thinks your stupid, he's the wrong guy. Plus, sounds like he may have been around the block. Make him wait, you should wait. Last thing you want to be is a notch on someones bedpost.
 
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