He says he doesnt like going out to restaurants? HUH?

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Don S

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When I was dating I could always tell if I was going to have any chance of a future with a girl by the way she treated those who were waiting on her, particularly in a restaurant. Your boyfriend has one of those personalities that I would never call for a second date. He is not likely to change and you need to ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your future.
 
When I was dating I could always tell if I was going to have any chance of a future with a girl by the way she treated those who were waiting on her, particularly in a restaurant. Your boyfriend has one of those personalities that I would never call for a second date. He is not likely to change and you need to ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your future.
 
Ok im a little confused.
Me and My boyfriend Have always gone out to restaurants.
I personally think that going out to restaurants is nice and a perfect treat.
Anyways ....
Since the very beggining, everytime we go out to eat, he is always observing people, critizing, etc.
All his life he was always worked for restaurants and Hotel's.
I guess that all the observing that he does is because he likes to look at the imperfections of the workers, etc.

Today....
He was home playing games...
we were off and I thought it was nice that I would take him out by the beach to this restaurant.
He told me that " it was a waste of money " and i told him to just be quiet and come with me.

Then when we were in the car... a block away from my house,
he told me " where are you taking me.. to one of those restaurants?"
" cuz i dont like going out to restaurants... im not into those type of things"
i was like... " huh??, what do you mean you dont like going out to restaurants"
he was like... " cuz i dont ".
I immediately felt hurt and drove back home.

I know that he likes alot of junk food... he doesnt have a problem with going out to restaurants that are fast food.....He is also very reserved and shy.

I dont understand his problem.
Somebody voice your opinion.
 
When I was dating I could always tell if I was going to have any chance of a future with a girl by the way she treated those who were waiting on her, particularly in a restaurant. Your boyfriend has one of those personalities that I would never call for a second date. He is not likely to change and you need to ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your future.
 
When I was dating I could always tell if I was going to have any chance of a future with a girl by the way she treated those who were waiting on her, particularly in a restaurant. Your boyfriend has one of those personalities that I would never call for a second date. He is not likely to change and you need to ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your future.
 
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