Ok I know that from my title I probably sound really shallow but trust me i'm not. I love my fiance, and we've been together for three years...he proposed last December. The problem is, he never wants to have sex anymore. Whenever I bring it up he just says he is too tired from work or just doesn't feel like it. I have tried coaxing him to take Viagra or consult a physician but he insists that it's not a medical problem, it's just that he's not in the mood. And I don't like to bring it up too much because it just causes an argument and makes him irritated with me. I don't know what to do because we aren't even married yet but already having these problems. I know one factor is our age difference. I am 28 and he just hit 47 in April. But even so that is not THAT big of an age difference that our sexual appetites should be different...right? I'm just so confused. I love this man and I know that sex should not be a deal breaker in a relationship. I realize that I am not some young, sex craved woman anymore, and that I am older and sex should not be so important to me as it was when I was in my younger years...but what can I say? I enjoy sex. He enjoys it too, but as we've progressed in our relationship he just does not seem to be interested anymore. What should I do? I will not back out on our wedding (May 7, 2010 
) just because of sex because I love him and want to be with him and grow old with him. BUT I also don't want to have a sexless marriage. I just feel that he doesn't find me attractive anymore and have no idea how to bring back the spark. Any advice please? :-(
) just because of sex because I love him and want to be with him and grow old with him. BUT I also don't want to have a sexless marriage. I just feel that he doesn't find me attractive anymore and have no idea how to bring back the spark. Any advice please? :-(