...levels. Help!!!? I am Aida. I am from a wealthy egyptian family. I was blessed to have a very good and reputable family. I was lucky to have the best education and a great job. I finished my masters too. He on the other hand, he is spanish. He is from a low-middle class family and he does not have enough money to even think of buying a car or a house if we get married in the future. He never went to university and he is just working in public relations. He says that he loves me so much and willing to change all his life for me and even start studying and live here with me in egypt. Please help!!! We only met 2 times and since then we have been talking for the past 2 years over the phone. My parents do not know about this and will never agree to our marriage (our families in egypt are very conservatives). I thought I loved him. But a couple of days ago I searched deep inside me and realized that I never felt proud of him. What do I do? I am 28 and I thought that he is the love of my life. But I am starting to realize that I was wrong! Help me know how to deal with the situation and know what to tell him.
I previously told him that it is very difficult to continue together but never told him the part about not being proud of him. I don't want to hurt his feelings. BUT he does not want to let go. He is saying I only want that because I am afraid to continue and do something different for once. He always says that he deserves at least one chance and that he deserves to come see me in egypt. Sometimes i feel he deserves at least this chance. Come on! he's been calling everyday from spain for the past 2 years. He said he is willing to leave his country and live here, change his job and even start studying! But I have to say he talks and says a lot but I still did not see any actions taken. Do you think i should believe him? Why wouldn't I beleive him? He has all the women he could have in his country? Why would he keep faithful (that's what he says) for a period of 2 years??!!!!
I know that education and money are not everything. But here in my community they are important. Another thing that I am worried about is that he does not beleive in God while my family and I are beleivers. Now he is saying that he does beleive! Is he lying to me???
I am so confused. Sorry for the long boring message.
I previously told him that it is very difficult to continue together but never told him the part about not being proud of him. I don't want to hurt his feelings. BUT he does not want to let go. He is saying I only want that because I am afraid to continue and do something different for once. He always says that he deserves at least one chance and that he deserves to come see me in egypt. Sometimes i feel he deserves at least this chance. Come on! he's been calling everyday from spain for the past 2 years. He said he is willing to leave his country and live here, change his job and even start studying! But I have to say he talks and says a lot but I still did not see any actions taken. Do you think i should believe him? Why wouldn't I beleive him? He has all the women he could have in his country? Why would he keep faithful (that's what he says) for a period of 2 years??!!!!
I know that education and money are not everything. But here in my community they are important. Another thing that I am worried about is that he does not beleive in God while my family and I are beleivers. Now he is saying that he does beleive! Is he lying to me???
I am so confused. Sorry for the long boring message.