My fiancee and I were talked into having our wedding in the fall by my Mom (I don't know why)... We definitely don't want to wait this long. I need medical insurance and cannot get any without being on his insurance, which requires us to be married. We have been by passed by so many people who were engaged before us and we don't want to wait this long. I am not able to get the medical care that I need for a serious health issue without insurance..
Our question is...if we were to get our pastor to marry us in his office (very quietly with maybe our parents).. and not tell anyone.. Could we still have our wedding in the fall/summer like we have planned and I wear the dress I have.. etc, etc? It sounds rediculous but when you are being denied medical coverage because you're not married and are tired of being upstaged by others who have never thought about getting married until you got engaged.. you would see why. Is this unfounded?
We're not getting married because of that. We want to get married and I am very sick and need health insurance!
Our question is...if we were to get our pastor to marry us in his office (very quietly with maybe our parents).. and not tell anyone.. Could we still have our wedding in the fall/summer like we have planned and I wear the dress I have.. etc, etc? It sounds rediculous but when you are being denied medical coverage because you're not married and are tired of being upstaged by others who have never thought about getting married until you got engaged.. you would see why. Is this unfounded?
We're not getting married because of that. We want to get married and I am very sick and need health insurance!