have you ever felt you are attacked, violated when you have sex and enjoyed it?

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i have been seeing a guy for couple of days. we kissed and tried to have sex. he put a hand under my pants. i panpan icedrabbed his arm to stop him. i felt like i was violated.

is it weird that i ejoyed the moment when i felt like i was violated?i told him i don't wanna do it but truth is, i wanted him to just push me over the edge. it was so...i wanted him to violate me, control me.

am i sick?
 
hum....no your not sick - however you were "acting" role playing if you will. It NOT called rape if both parties are willing - its just a fanticy acted out. and a common one at that - to be deisred - controled bla bla bla...

Its COMPLETLY different when there really is an assualt - and one party is not on board - and I pray you never have to endure it.
 
hahaha.

no.
not at all.

some people just like to be controlled.
it's totally normal!
:P
 
I can totally relate to you, I've had some experiences like that myself. It's your body and you need to stand up for yourself, if you want that experience then you are probably just nervous about it; however, if you do not want that kind of contact, you need to tell him right away.
 
LOL, not really most people like being dominated and its like a fantasy for most, if u really like him and if ur active you should talk to them about it and see where that goes, if he m agree u should definetly role play it, there nothing wrong with thinking that way, but just make sure u both want it and not end up being raped for sure
 
No, I don't think so. There are a lot of people that like to be put into a situation like that. Then there are the people who Role Play being raped, etc.
 
No, not weird at all. Actually there are lots of people who like the feeling of being "controlled". I think there are a lot gay guys who do, my ex liked it when I took control.
 
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its completely normal dude

haha
 
it is very natural for some people to have this feeling. Be honest with him and let him know what you like. You both can have a lot of fun with this, but have a safe word. You might want to cry and fight and say no because it turns you on, but a safe word protects you and lets him know when he really does need to stop. Use a word that is unusual to say during sex...like the words red for stop or yellow to slow down.
 
i don't know . i just know if you want something ask for it. people can't for the most part read minds..
 
Panpan icedrabbed?

It's fine if you like that. Some people like to lose control in sex, some like to be controlling, others don't care. As long as nobody got unconsentingly hurt it's all good.
 
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