have a crush on an extremely hot girl at my gym...?

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Bottom line? You need to get the inner game and confidence and assume you are the prize, and then get SO confident that you are the prize that you can now be nice and seem to be SYMPATHETICALLY NICE instead of HITTING ON HER CREEPILY NICE!!!! Once you can do that you are good to go!!!

Until then you are screwed my mans. Read on

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There are 2 main types of attraction switches, that humans are attracted to: These go back to cavemen days, in our genetic instincts, and they are as follows: SURVIVAL and REPLICATION. Survival traits are anything someone does that makes other people feel that person is good at surviving, and would help other survive. REPLICATION is anything that helps have good looking, strong babies that would help the next generation survive.

Basically, REPLICATION TRAITS are LOOKS. Your looks determine your replication value. SURVIVAL TRAITS are SOCIAL/PERSONALITY TRAITS. The stronger your frame of mind, the better your personality, the more friends you have, the more girls that like you, the better your influence or power, the more money you have, these are ALL SURVIVAL TRAITS.

Men are into REPLICATION TRAITS in women... we focus 9/10 on replication. We dont care how much money shes got! We care how sexy she is and if she wants to f*ck us or not, am i right? Its proven. However, WOMEN focus 7.5/10 on SURVIVAL traits. Thats right, 3/4 of the attraction women potentially have towards you is based on your SURVIVAL traits... your social status, your personality, your influence, your frame, etc.

Women who read this are probably like "ugh! men are pigs!" and men who think this are like "no wayyy.. i cant believe that! are women seriously mainly into my personality and hardly even care about looks?"

Both sexes have a hard time believing the other sex, or at least at not being repulsed by it, you know why? Because our instincts and our genetics in men and women operate DIFFERENTLY on this primal level. This is like lizard brain sh*t right here. Women like survival, men like replication, and both men AND women think the other sex is nuttier than circus monkey sh*t for thinking what they do.

However, all of that aside...

THESE ARE SOME TRAITS THAT MAKE WOMEN VERY ATTRACTED TO YOU, VERY FAST:

1- leader of men
2- preselected by women
3- has high confidence
4- has great charisma and a good energy and personality
5- is very funny and playful, makes ppl laugh and blush
6- is very well noticed, without being try-hard
7- Is emotionally NORMAL, yet isnt afraid to express them
8- protector of loved ones
9- Is NEVER fidgety, nervous, twitchy, stuttery, uncomfortable
10- has a very strong frame
11- shows motivation and seems to be going far in life
12- you must be sexual WITHOUT being h*rny
13-Be NON-NEEDY... show willingness 2 casually walk away
14- A great smile
15- Be exceptionally well groomed, almost bordering gay
16- Ability to affect her on many emotional levels
17- Convey a lifestyle that is adventurous, fun, active, interesting, entertaining, and full of awesome people
18- NEVER be jealous or afraid; instead, INTRODUCE HER to every cool guy your friends with (as this will make her realize you arent jealous and that you are more popular)
 
have a crush on an extremely hot girl at my gym...?
I have a crush on an extremely hot girl at my gym...?
but a friend that goes there says she really doesn't talk to any one.Anyways,i'm insecure(because i'm asian),but i AM very fit.I think she is latina or middle -eastern but i am not sure,but she is gorgeous.Anyway,if i DO get in a situation where i might have an oppurtinity to talk to her,how should i come across?I just want to get to know her,and not come across as the sleazy type.I have some things going for me such as being a good musician and am also certified by a fitness corporation,although i am a musician for my occupation.Would this be enough to impress her? It IS losangeles ,but i kinda wanna overlook that and get to know this girl
 
Bottom line? You need to get the inner game and confidence and assume you are the prize, and then get SO confident that you are the prize that you can now be nice and seem to be SYMPATHETICALLY NICE instead of HITTING ON HER CREEPILY NICE!!!! Once you can do that you are good to go!!!

Until then you are screwed my mans. Read on

===================
There are 2 main types of attraction switches, that humans are attracted to: These go back to cavemen days, in our genetic instincts, and they are as follows: SURVIVAL and REPLICATION. Survival traits are anything someone does that makes other people feel that person is good at surviving, and would help other survive. REPLICATION is anything that helps have good looking, strong babies that would help the next generation survive.

Basically, REPLICATION TRAITS are LOOKS. Your looks determine your replication value. SURVIVAL TRAITS are SOCIAL/PERSONALITY TRAITS. The stronger your frame of mind, the better your personality, the more friends you have, the more girls that like you, the better your influence or power, the more money you have, these are ALL SURVIVAL TRAITS.

Men are into REPLICATION TRAITS in women... we focus 9/10 on replication. We dont care how much money shes got! We care how sexy she is and if she wants to f*ck us or not, am i right? Its proven. However, WOMEN focus 7.5/10 on SURVIVAL traits. Thats right, 3/4 of the attraction women potentially have towards you is based on your SURVIVAL traits... your social status, your personality, your influence, your frame, etc.

Women who read this are probably like "ugh! men are pigs!" and men who think this are like "no wayyy.. i cant believe that! are women seriously mainly into my personality and hardly even care about looks?"

Both sexes have a hard time believing the other sex, or at least at not being repulsed by it, you know why? Because our instincts and our genetics in men and women operate DIFFERENTLY on this primal level. This is like lizard brain sh*t right here. Women like survival, men like replication, and both men AND women think the other sex is nuttier than circus monkey sh*t for thinking what they do.

However, all of that aside...

THESE ARE SOME TRAITS THAT MAKE WOMEN VERY ATTRACTED TO YOU, VERY FAST:

1- leader of men
2- preselected by women
3- has high confidence
4- has great charisma and a good energy and personality
5- is very funny and playful, makes ppl laugh and blush
6- is very well noticed, without being try-hard
7- Is emotionally NORMAL, yet isnt afraid to express them
8- protector of loved ones
9- Is NEVER fidgety, nervous, twitchy, stuttery, uncomfortable
10- has a very strong frame
11- shows motivation and seems to be going far in life
12- you must be sexual WITHOUT being h*rny
13-Be NON-NEEDY... show willingness 2 casually walk away
14- A great smile
15- Be exceptionally well groomed, almost bordering gay
16- Ability to affect her on many emotional levels
17- Convey a lifestyle that is adventurous, fun, active, interesting, entertaining, and full of awesome people
18- NEVER be jealous or afraid; instead, INTRODUCE HER to every cool guy your friends with (as this will make her realize you arent jealous and that you are more popular)
 
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