...she is confusing.. help? we were just chillin in my room one night and it happened. three times. and then last night it happened again twice. ive always had feelings for her and we dated once. she recently told me her first time was a rape like incedent and then she did it again with this guy for like a comfort thing and hasnt done it again till last week. shes always been the good christian girl. she is worried about pregnacy and she said she wants to take it slow after the first time but then did it again last night. so im not sure if she wants a relationship or not. im confused and want some opinions. thanks for listening