frustration.both embarrassed please help? My girlfriend and i were arguing rather or not i should meet her family.i was telling her no.and then she started talking about my family then i got frustrated and i tried so hard to keep myself from going off i wet myself.she just looked at me.then she said okay fine you dont have to.then i changed myself and took her home.what do i do.she didnt even look at me in the car.how do i control myself.do i meet her mother.