had a problem with mother in law, people assumed that i do not respect her?

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I have never shown anything but respect for my mother in law. The whole time I was dating my husband, I was nothing but nice and respectful to her AND my father in law.

They treat their 4 children (all boys) like dirt, and expect them all to stay with them and pay bills to them.

My husband was the 3rd child, and he was glad to get out- but we still continued to visit and be nice- and I was as nice as i could possibly be to her.

Well, she has given me food poisoning twice because of her atrocious cooking- of which i said nothing.

Also, I was engaged to my husband before I met her, because she was in another state at the time.

Well, some women I have known since I was 2 told me that SHE told them that she pressured my husband to marry me, because she didn't like that we were living together. She ALSO said that I cannot cook.

THIS IS A LIE- I have won numerous competitions for my cooking, and even my husband says I can cook circles around her.

NONE of which I ever said to her.

This is not "gossip" I'm hearing from these women, I have always known them, and they do not "gossip" about anyone.

My husband even admitted that she says those things so he can hear them, even though he has told her they are not true.

I have decided i do not want to talk to her until she apologizes for being so two-faced.

Why do people automatically assume I'm in the wrong?


We have no children as of now, but we want some in the future.

The only reason we lived together to begin with was because his mom threw him out in a fit of rage because he took me to a dance instead of staying at home to help her do her own work (he was 18) and my dad kicked me out the day before because i refused to keep giving him my hard earned money for his drinking problem. (i was 17)

we married 4 months later, as soon as my mom could sign the papers.
 
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