Hackers/Geeks/Cell phones buffs need your help! please!?

[justagirl]

I am so so upset right now. I am a 22 year old female, and have been seeing this other female for awhile. She has been so mean to me lately, and just a total b*tch. I think she is seeing some guy, and it just hurts me so bad. I would like to know if there is a way a can read her text messages (she has a smart phone). I know those spy programs, but I cannot actually download it onto her phone, bc I would NEVER be able to get a hold of her actual phone, so I wondered if there was some other way? Also, possibly getting access to her computer, but I know that I cannot actually GET to her computer to load a program on it.. I do NOT want to do anything bad, I just want to know. I just want the peace of mind you know? It's driving me mad. Please instant message me on yahoo, I am Yourfate77 on there. Any help would be appreciated. thanks so much. i know we have ALL been there at one point.