itsjudicious
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So I have a dilemma..
I’ve been going to the gym for about 2 years (at this location).
There is this guy who’s pretty darn hot, probably mid 20s or so, but unsure. I’ve seen him for the past 2 – 2.5 years at the gym, and it’s been so confusing. I go to the gym to work out and break a sweat. I’m not like other girls who wear a ton of makeup and try to get guy’s attention.
I think this guy saw me checking him out, and ever since then, he would walk pass me, or work out around me. It gets me nervous when he does that, so I always end up starting at the ground when he’s near me.
He won’t say hi or anything, and I think he may have a girlfrirend because I did see a girl going to the gym with him like 5 times throughout this 2 – 2.5 years, but not in the recent 9 months. They wore matching colors! I’m sure they were dating! Yes, assumptions, I know, he may be gay as well, who knows.
I told a few of my friends, and they either said, he likes my attention because it gives him an ego boost, or he just likes to mess with my mind because he knows I’m checking him out. I don’t know how he knew I was checking him out, but he knows.
I often go to the gym and can totally see him looking around my area to see if I’m at the gym. At times, when I leave, he’ll walk pass me, or when I go to the gym he’ll walk pass my workout to ‘signify’ that he’s ‘there’.
I don’t really get it, my other friend said he’s probably insecure and wants to feel validated with my attention or he might of convinced himself that he knows I have a thing for him.
Everyone is telling me to talk to him or say hi, but I refuse, because if he REALLY wants to talk to me, he would. If a guy really is into a girl, he would make the move. Heck, cocky, arrogant guys would talk to chicks, and if he likes ego boosts so much, why won’t he talk to me?
It all comes down to, why won’t he say hi?
I’ve been going to the gym for about 2 years (at this location).
There is this guy who’s pretty darn hot, probably mid 20s or so, but unsure. I’ve seen him for the past 2 – 2.5 years at the gym, and it’s been so confusing. I go to the gym to work out and break a sweat. I’m not like other girls who wear a ton of makeup and try to get guy’s attention.
I think this guy saw me checking him out, and ever since then, he would walk pass me, or work out around me. It gets me nervous when he does that, so I always end up starting at the ground when he’s near me.
He won’t say hi or anything, and I think he may have a girlfrirend because I did see a girl going to the gym with him like 5 times throughout this 2 – 2.5 years, but not in the recent 9 months. They wore matching colors! I’m sure they were dating! Yes, assumptions, I know, he may be gay as well, who knows.
I told a few of my friends, and they either said, he likes my attention because it gives him an ego boost, or he just likes to mess with my mind because he knows I’m checking him out. I don’t know how he knew I was checking him out, but he knows.
I often go to the gym and can totally see him looking around my area to see if I’m at the gym. At times, when I leave, he’ll walk pass me, or when I go to the gym he’ll walk pass my workout to ‘signify’ that he’s ‘there’.
I don’t really get it, my other friend said he’s probably insecure and wants to feel validated with my attention or he might of convinced himself that he knows I have a thing for him.
Everyone is telling me to talk to him or say hi, but I refuse, because if he REALLY wants to talk to me, he would. If a guy really is into a girl, he would make the move. Heck, cocky, arrogant guys would talk to chicks, and if he likes ego boosts so much, why won’t he talk to me?
It all comes down to, why won’t he say hi?