So my guy bff and I talk about the craziest things and we've always been open to our preferences sexually. Recently we ended up talking about masturbating and sex through phone and msn and he was going to get me a vibrator for my birthday coming up.
My question? Guys, would you only talk to girls about that kind of thing if you're into them? Emotionally liking them, or physically attracted to, at least?
I'm wondering coz I've liked him for a long time as well.. and if this recent change of topic is an indication he finds me physically attractive, or if he likes me in that way. The thing is that he's said he's talked about this with his other girl friends (after we 1st talked about it) so it might be normal to him?
I mean, if guys talked about sex with girls, can they really think about that girl the same way again?
More details.. he was going to ask me for prom but he didn't and wouldn't admit it for the longest time until I pestered it out of him.
At our prom, I asked my friend to ask him to ask me (sorry lol) to slow dance and he did. But he stopped half way through the song. I asked him why and he just avoided the question and said "Let's just go" or something along that line. But he slow danced with a girl I know he used to be friends with, but not really anymore and he danced with her the whole song when she asked him.
He also doesn't have any hesitation to touch me, like in our bio class, we were doing some experiements involving senses, where we touch the back of the necks for responses. Some people were nervous about touching other's necks but he had no hesitation in asking me if he could touch my neck.
I'm not really sure what to think anymore.
My question? Guys, would you only talk to girls about that kind of thing if you're into them? Emotionally liking them, or physically attracted to, at least?
I'm wondering coz I've liked him for a long time as well.. and if this recent change of topic is an indication he finds me physically attractive, or if he likes me in that way. The thing is that he's said he's talked about this with his other girl friends (after we 1st talked about it) so it might be normal to him?
I mean, if guys talked about sex with girls, can they really think about that girl the same way again?
More details.. he was going to ask me for prom but he didn't and wouldn't admit it for the longest time until I pestered it out of him.
At our prom, I asked my friend to ask him to ask me (sorry lol) to slow dance and he did. But he stopped half way through the song. I asked him why and he just avoided the question and said "Let's just go" or something along that line. But he slow danced with a girl I know he used to be friends with, but not really anymore and he danced with her the whole song when she asked him.
He also doesn't have any hesitation to touch me, like in our bio class, we were doing some experiements involving senses, where we touch the back of the necks for responses. Some people were nervous about touching other's necks but he had no hesitation in asking me if he could touch my neck.
I'm not really sure what to think anymore.