Guys - would you be in a relationship with NO SEX?

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Well I want to be in a relationship but I don't want to have sex for a long time, probably until marriage.

But then I thought to myself, which guy will ever be happy with that?

I decided to think of the root causes of why a guy would enter a relationship and thought it's probably not for holding hands and cuddling.

So the problem is, if I ever want to wait then I need to find a partner who is willing to wait but I don't think they will to be honest. How will I ever find out who is right for me if I can't even enter a relationship?
Why do people make such assumptions? I have been throught puberty I'm 18!!! And yes I have strong urges sometimes too!
 
Personally no.

But you need to find a guy with the same values as you- I would point you towards the church in this case.
 
I would be fine with that. If the girl wishes to abstain for a long period of time, i would be just fine with that. I care more about the lady's happiness then a night of pleasure. I guess some guys would agree with me, but most of them would probably be unhappy.

If the guy truely loves the girl, he can wait.
 
honestly i don't care if i relay like the person it's there decision if we do it or not i cant force em and im ok with that i let them tell me when they want it lol they always want it eventually ;)
 
Yes - I would be in a relationship with no sex. I think I'm mature enough to respect her decisions and if any man ends a relationship because of this, he isn't worth it!
Obviously I'd like to have sex in a relationship, but it's not a complete MUST.
Keep to that decision and don't let any guy change it.
:D
 
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