GUYS, why does my ex-fling still contact me?

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detailed story: my ex fling and i were never official or exclusive. my ex-fling was 20/21 and i was 19/20 when were were together. we never had sex, although he always loved talking about it.. i didnt want to have sex with a guy i wasnt dating, cuz i was a virgin. our fling lasted for 4months, until i found a new bf (my new bf and i only lasted for 2 months). my ex-fling and i never ended our fling with a talk...i just blew him off via my new facebook relationship status update. i was bttchy cuz he kept playing games--he acted like he loved me (told me he loved me), but never asked to be official. when i was in a relationship, my ex-fling tried to contact me when i told him i didnt want to talk to him. after my relationship with the bf ended, my ex-fling contacted me again, i bttched him out. i texted him a month later to apologize. everythings ok... but didnt talk for 4 months. then drunk texted him that i missed him. then he contacted me every few weeks just to talk... sometimes for 3 hours at a time. he has a new gf now, who he talks trash about her being desperate for sex and other guys, that she is unattractive (but then, why is he still with her?). so why does he still want to talk to me?

summarized story: its been a year since my ex-fling and i ended things. our fling lasted 4 months, we never had sex. he still contacts me every once in a while. why does he do that?
also, the last time we hung out, he told me he never had sex with his gf. odd relationship, cuz they broke up the day him and i hung out (didnt seem like they were angry at each other though), but were official again a week later.
 
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