Cesaria Barbarossa
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Backstory: I have a trial preparation course and i'm in a group of 4 and we are doing a mock trial. Three of us have been on point with our responsibilities, even though we all have kids (one has a child who has medical issues). The other person has failed almost 99% of the time to have things done on time, to be present at meetings (even when we do them via chat) and has just been slacking the entire time. After ditching our meeting, Sunday (and after repeated attempts to contact her) she materialized today in an email saying "Sorry about Sunday..."
My response:
"Megan, Deb called you several times on Sunday, left messages etc and, as far as I know, this is the first time anyone has heard from you. All three of us have held our end of the deal, sticking to what we say we're going to do. We discuss meetings in class and concerns about communication, yet for whatever reason, there seems to be a disconnect of what is agreed upon and what actually happens, which is beyond troubling. Pardon the bluntless but this is frustrating, to say the least. A little courtesy goes a long way. A phone call, email, text or something on Sunday or Saturday would have curbed any frustration. I understand the house thing. Things get hectic. Deb, Crystal and I all have kids and we still make the time. In fact, Deb will be going over the script with her father while she's at the hospital with her son during his surgery. We'll have to discuss this more tomorrow. "
Is this too much. I felt I should get it out now over the email because in person, I don't know if I would have been this nice.
Donzi-you know you love to hate me lol! Carry on.
My response:
"Megan, Deb called you several times on Sunday, left messages etc and, as far as I know, this is the first time anyone has heard from you. All three of us have held our end of the deal, sticking to what we say we're going to do. We discuss meetings in class and concerns about communication, yet for whatever reason, there seems to be a disconnect of what is agreed upon and what actually happens, which is beyond troubling. Pardon the bluntless but this is frustrating, to say the least. A little courtesy goes a long way. A phone call, email, text or something on Sunday or Saturday would have curbed any frustration. I understand the house thing. Things get hectic. Deb, Crystal and I all have kids and we still make the time. In fact, Deb will be going over the script with her father while she's at the hospital with her son during his surgery. We'll have to discuss this more tomorrow. "
Is this too much. I felt I should get it out now over the email because in person, I don't know if I would have been this nice.
Donzi-you know you love to hate me lol! Carry on.