I'm seeing a guy for about two months now. Whenever i come over to his place we will talk, watch a movie and snuggle but he will start to take things further, i allow him to touch me but when he wants something from me like a BJ or HJ, cause he knows sex is out of the question that early on in a relationship, i refuse to purely because i need to know a guy on a deeper level to do sexual acts with him.
When he wants to lie around in his bed i will gladly hop in and he will hold me (which really excites him) touch me, we make out and such, which all gets him going and than i don't want to do anything further purely because i can't ignore my perceptions on things like this--i just can't get sexual with a guy if i am not emotionally, whole heartily involved with him. So am i being unfair on him, exciting him and then turning him down when he wants to take it further. I really like him and i would be happy to just make out but it never stays at that, it always goes further and than i have to keep rejecting him and i'm sick of it, cause i don't want to lead him on but i want to be close to him so the point i feel comfortable.
And he never complains about me not wanting to do anything but i know he would get annoyed even though he doesn't say it. Could he remain understanding till i'm ready.
any advice would be much appreciated
When he wants to lie around in his bed i will gladly hop in and he will hold me (which really excites him) touch me, we make out and such, which all gets him going and than i don't want to do anything further purely because i can't ignore my perceptions on things like this--i just can't get sexual with a guy if i am not emotionally, whole heartily involved with him. So am i being unfair on him, exciting him and then turning him down when he wants to take it further. I really like him and i would be happy to just make out but it never stays at that, it always goes further and than i have to keep rejecting him and i'm sick of it, cause i don't want to lead him on but i want to be close to him so the point i feel comfortable.
And he never complains about me not wanting to do anything but i know he would get annoyed even though he doesn't say it. Could he remain understanding till i'm ready.
any advice would be much appreciated