GUYS! If guy says doesnt want serious rel right now b/c he's having financial...

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...problems, should I believe him? We've been going out for almost 6mths and we were great, but when things were getting too serious (taking me to a family dinner) he became distant.... he says he likes me a lot and his friends tease him about me, ask him about me, say he is in love with me. His best friend said: he is in love with you but he doesnt want to make a commitment because of his financial situation, but I think he will realize he wants a commitment when its too late and he will be sorry when he loses you....

Should I hang around a little bit more or send him to you know where! LOL! :) btw... he is 34 years old, I'm 26; and he is friends with my brother, my brother's friends are his friends, I told him that he shouldnt feel obliged to continue with this if he didnt want to, just because he didnt want to ruin the friendship with my brother, that if he wanted to bail we could end it right there, no hard feelings, and he said: of course not, that he wanted to keep dating me.... I told him this b/c I thought the financial issues were just an excuse, but when I put him on the spot he didnt want to end it.... What should I do?
 
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