Free to be.
New member
...confess a lie to him :/ ...? I lied to him about being in school.
Long story short...last summer, I came home one day and everything was gone. My mom left. So my dad and I were going to move down South, but it's taking more time than he anticipated because she left him with debt and there's so much to fix around this house before putting it up for sell. So I was supposed to start school in the fall, but I had to dis-enroll because I was supposed to be moving to Florida in a few months. So I just decided to take the year off because I didn't want to worry about credits transferring and to be honest, I don't want to go to a university in the state I live in because I've grown up here my entire life and I want to get out and explore! I also just thought it was inappropriate to go into details about it when I first met him so I was waiting for the right time.
So when I met this hot guy at the club that I had been dancing with for like forty five minutes, when he asked me what school I went to, I just lied. I didn't want him to judge me and be like "Oh she's not in school. She's a bum" or something ya know? I didn't expect to like him like this! I kept having to make up small lies like "Oh I'm writing a paper." or "Yeah, I've been doing homework for the past hour" to make it believable because you know I couldn't always say "I'm hangin out!" when he asks if I wanted him to think I was a full time student! I just wanted to be someone he'd want! But I hate lying to him. I can't stand it anymore. I have got to tell him the truth. We have our first date tonight. I'm gonna tell him.
:/ What do you think he'll think? I don't want him to loose interest! I like him so much!
Well even though this is our first date, we've been talking like every day since we met. We're very open with each other and we have really long talks about a lot of personal things. We've made plans to meet up twice but they got canceled both times. Friday, we were going to meet up, but there was a miscommunication and he left early so I was texting him like "Aww man you should have told me when you got here! I really wanted to see you tonight
" so he came back and we just sat in the car and talked for about an hour lol so it's not like we don't talk
Long story short...last summer, I came home one day and everything was gone. My mom left. So my dad and I were going to move down South, but it's taking more time than he anticipated because she left him with debt and there's so much to fix around this house before putting it up for sell. So I was supposed to start school in the fall, but I had to dis-enroll because I was supposed to be moving to Florida in a few months. So I just decided to take the year off because I didn't want to worry about credits transferring and to be honest, I don't want to go to a university in the state I live in because I've grown up here my entire life and I want to get out and explore! I also just thought it was inappropriate to go into details about it when I first met him so I was waiting for the right time.
So when I met this hot guy at the club that I had been dancing with for like forty five minutes, when he asked me what school I went to, I just lied. I didn't want him to judge me and be like "Oh she's not in school. She's a bum" or something ya know? I didn't expect to like him like this! I kept having to make up small lies like "Oh I'm writing a paper." or "Yeah, I've been doing homework for the past hour" to make it believable because you know I couldn't always say "I'm hangin out!" when he asks if I wanted him to think I was a full time student! I just wanted to be someone he'd want! But I hate lying to him. I can't stand it anymore. I have got to tell him the truth. We have our first date tonight. I'm gonna tell him.
:/ What do you think he'll think? I don't want him to loose interest! I like him so much!
Well even though this is our first date, we've been talking like every day since we met. We're very open with each other and we have really long talks about a lot of personal things. We've made plans to meet up twice but they got canceled both times. Friday, we were going to meet up, but there was a miscommunication and he left early so I was texting him like "Aww man you should have told me when you got here! I really wanted to see you tonight
" so he came back and we just sat in the car and talked for about an hour lol so it's not like we don't talk