"doesn't feel right"? Well, it all sounds like this guy is not normal. Don't guys want sex regardless?
We are friends, hooked up, but he didnt want to see me anymore because he "wanted to stop having sex with me because it didnt feel right". I'm attractive enough, (he says Im "awesome" and "gorgeous" and an "angel"!)have a nice body and we liked each other when we were friends. The problem is, that when we see each other and hang out, we end up having sex. He always initiates it. Me? I like sex, but as I've said to him many, many times before being his friend is more important to me. Everything seems as per normal otherwise since we still email and text each other. But, my disappointment is that even friends see each other once in a while; thats normal to me. We both know that there is no "chemistry" between us and date others, but I still want to see him as a friend for a chat and a drink. . at least once in a while. How can I get around this as we enjoy each others company. . . or at least I do and he has said he does. Comments?
We are friends, hooked up, but he didnt want to see me anymore because he "wanted to stop having sex with me because it didnt feel right". I'm attractive enough, (he says Im "awesome" and "gorgeous" and an "angel"!)have a nice body and we liked each other when we were friends. The problem is, that when we see each other and hang out, we end up having sex. He always initiates it. Me? I like sex, but as I've said to him many, many times before being his friend is more important to me. Everything seems as per normal otherwise since we still email and text each other. But, my disappointment is that even friends see each other once in a while; thats normal to me. We both know that there is no "chemistry" between us and date others, but I still want to see him as a friend for a chat and a drink. . at least once in a while. How can I get around this as we enjoy each others company. . . or at least I do and he has said he does. Comments?