...heads" in clubs/bars/lounges? i know every guy is different..but do the vast majority of guys just go and make it a mission to find someone willing to bone? (haha i watched american wedding recently).
and also, for the guys that are like that...are they generally always like that (their personality) or they just behave that way bc of the scene but in everyday life they're more normal and less..dog-like
it'd be nice to hear personal thoughts and how guys plan their nights for outtings..and their agendas. like, pretend i'm your baby sister that wants to enter the scene...what would you warn me against? ..or maybe not baby sister, i don't want you guys to be too strict haha...more like close female friend
honest answers please and thanks. plz provide your age..it kinda makes a difference if ur 23 or 50, haha.
Wow, loved the detailed answers! =) thanks guys. just to clarify, girls come to the scene to blow off steam as well!...but is it delirious to have all the fun, dancing, flirting and just making friends-minus the sex!??? or is it more "i'm not getting any...laters!!"???
this is probably bad, but i wouldnt mind keeping in touch and hanging out with the guys...they're fun to party with and tend to be entertaining. maybe it's bc they mastered the arts of getting girls' attention "in the game" but i'm just not one of the girls that can be got, haha. but is it just weird for the guy bc we both know what he was after and he "failed" so friendship doesnt really work?
bc in a girls view..MY view..i like to go to that scene for the energy..dancing..meeting ppl and having fun with the ppl i meet...whether it be dancing, flirting, being silly, or just plain ol talkin! and i'm not gonna lie, i like SOME of the guys attention...i like to feel wanted and desired every now and then, but if i f
(cont'd)...feel i'm being visually undressed, or physically!..nuh-uh man, you're getting shut down.
and also, for the guys that are like that...are they generally always like that (their personality) or they just behave that way bc of the scene but in everyday life they're more normal and less..dog-like
it'd be nice to hear personal thoughts and how guys plan their nights for outtings..and their agendas. like, pretend i'm your baby sister that wants to enter the scene...what would you warn me against? ..or maybe not baby sister, i don't want you guys to be too strict haha...more like close female friend

honest answers please and thanks. plz provide your age..it kinda makes a difference if ur 23 or 50, haha.
Wow, loved the detailed answers! =) thanks guys. just to clarify, girls come to the scene to blow off steam as well!...but is it delirious to have all the fun, dancing, flirting and just making friends-minus the sex!??? or is it more "i'm not getting any...laters!!"???
this is probably bad, but i wouldnt mind keeping in touch and hanging out with the guys...they're fun to party with and tend to be entertaining. maybe it's bc they mastered the arts of getting girls' attention "in the game" but i'm just not one of the girls that can be got, haha. but is it just weird for the guy bc we both know what he was after and he "failed" so friendship doesnt really work?
bc in a girls view..MY view..i like to go to that scene for the energy..dancing..meeting ppl and having fun with the ppl i meet...whether it be dancing, flirting, being silly, or just plain ol talkin! and i'm not gonna lie, i like SOME of the guys attention...i like to feel wanted and desired every now and then, but if i f
(cont'd)...feel i'm being visually undressed, or physically!..nuh-uh man, you're getting shut down.