I♥agoodhug
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me out again ? Player ? Ive been on 6 long dates with a guy who i was very close friends with online previously.
we have known each other onoine /on th ephone
we were dating others but started going out when i found out i am
moving to his city for grad school and work this September.
right now he is about 2-3 hours away/ he has 2 cars and i can always hop on a train to see him. i would call it mid distance not long distance...
we've had long fun dates.
only got more intimate last two dates (no no actual intercourse sex)
i thought we had a really good time nearly two weeks ago.
he is 35 and im 32
he has called me 5 times since then and also emailed me several times.
whats frustrating is he hasnt asked me out again (i went to see him the last 2 times )
and i see he has updated his match.com profile and had logged on daily and turned on his IM for it.
i dont know know what to think
he is old fashioned and apparently think men should ask women out so i cant ask him out without seeing desperate to him
should i pull back and not answer his emails and phone calls and let him miss me a lot more ?
we have known each other onoine /on th ephone
we were dating others but started going out when i found out i am
moving to his city for grad school and work this September.
right now he is about 2-3 hours away/ he has 2 cars and i can always hop on a train to see him. i would call it mid distance not long distance...
we've had long fun dates.
only got more intimate last two dates (no no actual intercourse sex)
i thought we had a really good time nearly two weeks ago.
he is 35 and im 32
he has called me 5 times since then and also emailed me several times.
whats frustrating is he hasnt asked me out again (i went to see him the last 2 times )
and i see he has updated his match.com profile and had logged on daily and turned on his IM for it.
i dont know know what to think
he is old fashioned and apparently think men should ask women out so i cant ask him out without seeing desperate to him
should i pull back and not answer his emails and phone calls and let him miss me a lot more ?