This guy that I met in 2007 went into the Navy in 2008 and he wanted me to marry him and have his baby. To be more specific,he asked me to marry him and have his baby so he could get extra money.Side Note:He said so he could get extra money,not 'us.' I live in KY he is stationed in Cali. I asked him why did he want to marry me and says 'because you're cool,lol.I'm not joking. So I hung up on his face because the answer shocked me,but before I hung up on him I kinda was waiting on another reason for him wanting to marry me and he did not give me one.Moving along, he calls my phone back and he left a message saying that he was just playing,okay,whatever.That wasn't the last time we talked;the last time we talked he told me about his two friends that were getting married I'm not sure if he knew that he was getting himself caught up because when he was talking about his two friends getting married he said that it was a fake marriage not real they were just doing it for the extra money.Even if he did not come out and say directly that our marriage wouldn't be real,I put 2 and 2 together and realized that he only wanted to marry me so he could get extra money and it would of been fake.So,after he discussed that story to me,he told me that he would send me a ticket to Cali to see him, guess what that was the last time I talked to him..that was 2yrs and some mos. ag
UCH!! All the people I told this to including military spouses and retired military men told me that I did the right thing and that I was smart. I did feel guilty at first,but not anymore.What do you guys think?Did I do the right thing? Do you think he was playing? Should I still feel guilty.At the time I was 22 and he was 19 I'm now 24 going on 25
UCH!! All the people I told this to including military spouses and retired military men told me that I did the right thing and that I was smart. I did feel guilty at first,but not anymore.What do you guys think?Did I do the right thing? Do you think he was playing? Should I still feel guilty.At the time I was 22 and he was 19 I'm now 24 going on 25