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ALWAYSEEKING
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...commitment?? help? I have been seeing this guy exclusively for 2 years. We don't see anyone else, and he calls it an "involvement".. no love, or talk of the future.
We are both older single parents, and get together for sex of course, and help each other out running errands or things around the house etc.. He doesn't sleep over or visa versa..even when the kids aren't here.
So we had a stretch of like 8 days go by and we get into an argument that he is not getting enough sex.. and I tell him maybe if he acted like a boyfriend he would get more.. we both love sex so that is not the issue... and he tells me I am the one who controls how much we have...I want it all from him.. so how can I get this across to him without holding sex?? I am just tired of things being so casual and now I feel he is demanding...without any signs of committment....
We are both older single parents, and get together for sex of course, and help each other out running errands or things around the house etc.. He doesn't sleep over or visa versa..even when the kids aren't here.
So we had a stretch of like 8 days go by and we get into an argument that he is not getting enough sex.. and I tell him maybe if he acted like a boyfriend he would get more.. we both love sex so that is not the issue... and he tells me I am the one who controls how much we have...I want it all from him.. so how can I get this across to him without holding sex?? I am just tired of things being so casual and now I feel he is demanding...without any signs of committment....