ponderinglife
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months, and I'm still waiting for the "mind blowing" sex to start.
I'm a pretty sexual person, so this aspect of a relationship is important to me. Yes, we've talked about it -- but it seems when I bring it up, it just exacerbates the problem. Like the more I say I'd like to work on it, or tell him what I like, the more it's a blow to his ego, and the more he hesitates.
I'm always the one to initiate it, and he's always unsure of himself when we're at it -- which is a turn off. It makes me feel like I'm the aggressor/man in the relationship. This is a huge turn off.
Help! We've talked about it and nothing is improving. I'd feel like the most shallow person to break up with him over this, but it's just so awful and not improving. Good guys are hard to find!
I'm a pretty sexual person, so this aspect of a relationship is important to me. Yes, we've talked about it -- but it seems when I bring it up, it just exacerbates the problem. Like the more I say I'd like to work on it, or tell him what I like, the more it's a blow to his ego, and the more he hesitates.
I'm always the one to initiate it, and he's always unsure of himself when we're at it -- which is a turn off. It makes me feel like I'm the aggressor/man in the relationship. This is a huge turn off.
Help! We've talked about it and nothing is improving. I'd feel like the most shallow person to break up with him over this, but it's just so awful and not improving. Good guys are hard to find!