heythereamberr
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I had been seeing this guy for a couple months. Lost my virginity to him 
. And I wake to a text this morning saying "were done hanging out. I'm sorry. Hope you didn't think we were going to get married. I enjoyed hanging out with you". And I was like are you serious can I get an explanation? And he said I want to see other girls and I'm sure you wouldn't want that. I think its easier to end it sooner than later. I want to sleep around and you don't seem like the type that will put up with that. And I was like no you douche I didn't think we would get married why would I think that? I just figured you would stick around a little longer and not just hit it and quit it. You are so disrespectful. And I said I must suck. And he was like shouldn't have said that about the marriage. I'm not trying to be disrespectful and shut up you are wonderful. It's easier to end things now instead of going along and it becomes harder to stop he said its time to move on there are a lot of people to meet out there and life is too short. And I told him I was mad and I never get mad. I said I always stuck up for you when people said you were selfish and you proved me wrong. I have never been more disrespected and that I can only hope he one day will quit being a coward and learn to respect people and their feelings. And he was like what would you have done if you were in my shoes? And I said I would have talked it out and done it face to face. And he said face to face is too messy with shock and emotions and its an ugly situation. And he said either way it would have the same outcome. Now he won't text me back. I have been trying to cope all day because this is such a surprise.. and I just saw that he deleted me from Facebook too. It's not even so much that he ended things its how he went about it. He is like removing me from his life and there is nothing I can do about it, I did nothing wrong. It sucks. I gave him my everything and now I feel so hurt... and mad. Any advice or help?
. And I wake to a text this morning saying "were done hanging out. I'm sorry. Hope you didn't think we were going to get married. I enjoyed hanging out with you". And I was like are you serious can I get an explanation? And he said I want to see other girls and I'm sure you wouldn't want that. I think its easier to end it sooner than later. I want to sleep around and you don't seem like the type that will put up with that. And I was like no you douche I didn't think we would get married why would I think that? I just figured you would stick around a little longer and not just hit it and quit it. You are so disrespectful. And I said I must suck. And he was like shouldn't have said that about the marriage. I'm not trying to be disrespectful and shut up you are wonderful. It's easier to end things now instead of going along and it becomes harder to stop he said its time to move on there are a lot of people to meet out there and life is too short. And I told him I was mad and I never get mad. I said I always stuck up for you when people said you were selfish and you proved me wrong. I have never been more disrespected and that I can only hope he one day will quit being a coward and learn to respect people and their feelings. And he was like what would you have done if you were in my shoes? And I said I would have talked it out and done it face to face. And he said face to face is too messy with shock and emotions and its an ugly situation. And he said either way it would have the same outcome. Now he won't text me back. I have been trying to cope all day because this is such a surprise.. and I just saw that he deleted me from Facebook too. It's not even so much that he ended things its how he went about it. He is like removing me from his life and there is nothing I can do about it, I did nothing wrong. It sucks. I gave him my everything and now I feel so hurt... and mad. Any advice or help?