Going to the best culinary school in the country. she doesnt want to come...

[Danny]

...with me for my dreams now...? So Ive been with this girl for about 5 months. I am going to the best culinary school in the country and at the beginning of the relationship I told her about my dreams to travel and make a real name for myself. in the beginnning she told me she wanted to travel with me but now shes sayin she wants to stay around by where were from for maybe 5 years. I feel like id be putting myself further into something that isnt going to work. I feel terrible because I took her virginity because I truly thought I might spend my life with this girl, in the beginning she told me she wanted to go to college and get a good degree but now she wants to go to community college for 2 years and get a job and keep it for years. I feel selfish with not wanting to stay but my dreams are right in front of my face. Some advice is needed