girls, is my feeling too weird ?

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so, we are getting married next week and i personally feel that my gf is too soft for things after marriage and am really tensed about wedding night


you guys know what i mean
she is shy and really anaemic and gets ill soon and sleeps like 12 hours a day so, i cant imagine myself inside her

am i acting weird or something is wrong with me
how do i deal with this ?
please give me some advice
dont tell me to go real slow cos i cant think of that too, and she is a virgin, me too
we have just kissed a few times
 
Have you and her discussed this or about sex?
If you are getting married id hope you have atleast discussed it, even though your both virgins.Just let her know that it worries you that sex with her might hurt,
but i think all will be fine some tips, put a pillow under her waist, and then go in, when your in switch positions so that she will be on top so she can control how fast or how slow she wants things and that way you wont have to be worried about hurting her. just be comforting nd dont try to hurry, it will hurt her alot if shes nervous so try and relax her and get her going by doing foreplay first dont rush into putting it in, also start with finger or two before going in. once she gets the flow of things you can also be on top, try diff positions, she wont get sick or break or anything, so dont worry.

hope i helped.
 
this sounds like a problem..............talk to her and tell her how you feel if shes gonna be your wife then comunnication is vital, but i can tell you that sex is very good for the body and that if she has orgams she might end up being healthier. sex is not a distructive thing, and you may eant to take it slow anyway.
 
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