Clark Kent
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We were at a party. I was feeling sick with my nose congested, voice crack and hoarse and hurt when I speak, and overall just not very well. My gf knows this already. On our way to the parking lot to the car after leaving the party, I threw up a few times from nausea (didn't drink). She saw this and asked if I was okay, and I said "ok" and started to drive her home. I dropped her off and walked her to her place. We kissed goodnight. After I got home, I called her to let her know that I got home safely. It was 11:50pm and I have work the next day having to get up at 7:00am. She asked if I am going to sleep and I said yes. But I had the impression that she wanted to talk about something so I asked if she has something to say. Her reply was, "Since you don't want to talk. Bye" and hanged up the phone before I could say anything. She later texted me saying that I couldn't even give her 5 min to speak, and she's now very mad. I was ready to listen and talk but she hanged up.
I had asked her prior if she wanted to speak and she said yes and then accused me not wanting to talk to her and then hanged up before I could even say a thing after her "yes" reply.
I felt that was uncalled for. She knows that I don't feel well with nausea, throat hurts when I speak and had just thrown up and have to get up early for work and very tired from the flu. She's mad at me because I didn't give her "5 min to talk." I feel that (1) she didn't even give me a chance to say "im listening" before she hanged up and (2) doesn't seem to care about my well being and that I need rest and sleep. I feel that her needs was more important than my well being and that disappoints me greatly and the fact that she's mad is just icing.
Can anyone explain her side or how she sees it? Is she justified to get mad at me? I really don't know what she was thinkingour how she justify this so that she's "right."
I had asked her prior if she wanted to speak and she said yes and then accused me not wanting to talk to her and then hanged up before I could even say a thing after her "yes" reply.
I felt that was uncalled for. She knows that I don't feel well with nausea, throat hurts when I speak and had just thrown up and have to get up early for work and very tired from the flu. She's mad at me because I didn't give her "5 min to talk." I feel that (1) she didn't even give me a chance to say "im listening" before she hanged up and (2) doesn't seem to care about my well being and that I need rest and sleep. I feel that her needs was more important than my well being and that disappoints me greatly and the fact that she's mad is just icing.
Can anyone explain her side or how she sees it? Is she justified to get mad at me? I really don't know what she was thinkingour how she justify this so that she's "right."