Steve Mcantiosh
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Hello, I am 18 and me and my girlfriend dated for about 15 months and then decided to take a break (about 6 months ago). A month into the break we started talking again and she would come sleepover. We started having sex again and she said she wanted things to "go back to normal". However, at the same time I heard from numerous mutual friends that she was now dating a guy (her co-worker). Also before we ever broke up, she use to text with this guy I found out that she lied about sleeping over at this guys house from her close friend and when I confronted she denied it multiple times until I told her I had proof and she finally admitted that. With that being said I was extremely pissed off to know that there had been something between them the whole time. So fast forward back to when we first started talking again after our "break" (about 5 months ago) and I confronted her about whether she was dating him- she denied it and said they were just friends. Yet, I found out this was a lie too because he called her when we were hanging out and she told him that she was just with her girlfriends and said "i love you" to him before hanging up. At this point she admitted that that she was lying and that they were just casually dating and there relationship was nothing. She said that she and him had only kissed and explained to me that she would NEVER have sex with someone like him. So at this point I knew she was overlapping us both and lying to both of us. Well they got in a fight week later and she told me that she definitely wanted to get back together with me. sure enough she lied about that too and got back with him 2 days after there fight. About 2 weeks after this, she claimed that she broke up with him for good to be with and me, being naive and stupid, took her back. Since then I have heard from various people that they had been having sex while they were dating. She is the only girl Ive had sex with but she has had sex with 6 other people that I know of so I would not put it out of the question that she was indeed having sex with him while during that month or so we were having sex too. However, she kept insisting and promising to me that they had never had sex. About two days ago I found an old message from one of her girlfriends and in the message the girl referenced how she had walked in on them having sex. I confronted my gf and she kept denying it until I told her I found the message and she finally admitted having sex with him. I broke up with her and have been ignoring here since. Shes keeps calling and texting me now saying how much she loves, how shes nothing without me, and how she made a huge mistake. What do I do? Should I take her back? Do you think she has been playing me the whole time?