Girlfriend isnt taking care of herself?! What to do!?

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My girlfriend goes to college and has been putting on weight due to drinking beer and eating "easily" prepared meals that are high-carb, high-fat, high-sodium junk that's lying around her dorm. She stops going to the gym.Now, she went to the gym the other day and was crying after because she was so sore and couldn't even run a mile and he was mad at herself b/c of her weight gain. She recently got a little sick/flu and complains to me all the time. Shes still sick but she drunk-dialed me at 2AM this morning. I text her today and ask if shes laying down, she says shes playing ruit, a beer drinking game.AKA she isn't fixing her diet and she isn't taking care of herself, and she text me this morning at 2AM, after I got to bed late. What do I say to that? I put my away message up and shes txting me asking whats wrong and I'm frustrated with her.We have a long distance relationship and I lost my license so we barely see each other now.Yea i told her I like her for who she is, but she tells me shes going to the gym then always skips out- usually to drink. It's like she's not trying.
 
just be honest with her.... tell her whaty your telling us. but even if shes put on a little weight and stuff, you should still love her for who she is... not how she looks.
 
um try to stay strong maybe if u show her how much u care for her maybe she will try to get better
 
say its overif she doesn't care about her body she wont care about walking the linefind a girl that takes care of herself and will love youif you love her and don't want to let her go and just want her to get help, then tell her she should stop drinking, before something bad happens.girls get really upset when you tell them there fat, just go on a diet yourself and let her know you are on one, shell see you then feel bad about herself and then shell do something or at least want to
 
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