sfsdmj1966
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Started 2 yrs ago . Always hides it but i always find out because it always comes down to me to clean the mess up. 1st time it happened 6 credit cards maxed out plus 5 payday loan centers . Wiped out my savings to clean the mess up . 2nd time all the bills were slowly getting disconnect notices . Found out after a check was given to me to pay a bill and it bounced . wiped out savings again to clean up the mess . 3rd time (recent) My spouse has payed no bills last 2 mo , I am paying mobile home payment , lot rent , cellphone (witch includes spouses daughter and 2 grandchildren - over $300 ) vehicle loan payment and a joint loan . Don't trust any more . I want a divorce . Have asked several times . Keep throwing up our wedding vows and says they will commit suicide. I have no trust left . I don't want to be responcible for their financial problems anymore cause seems like they expect me to make it all right after they make the mess . Am I right in wanting a divorce ?