Details: Why can other people have a second child or a child when I cannot? I am in my 20s, married, work, have medical insurance, my husband works, we have our own place (small, but we have it). I am also in college, and about to finish one degree (working on two at one time). I have an almost school age child from a prior marriage. Lately I remarried and that was a few months ago. My husband and I cannot get rid of the desire to have another child. We are Christians and I have been seeking counsel on this at church and they say that it is not a sin, but I believe it is. Everyone says we need to be married ALOT longer than a few months. I am very jealous/hurt when someone else has a baby because I know I want one very badly. We also don't want the kids to be very far apart in age. Alot of people say 'you have a child already, you don't ever need another" (ex husband's mom said that)
Question: How can we get rid of this desire to have a child once and for all? How can I just stop altogether and do what others say, just not have any more?
Well, I felt it to be demonic or sinful and my husband says that that is absurd and wrong of me to say. We have a small place and we have only been married a few months. Its my ex's family that are SO against me having another baby.
Question: How can we get rid of this desire to have a child once and for all? How can I just stop altogether and do what others say, just not have any more?
Well, I felt it to be demonic or sinful and my husband says that that is absurd and wrong of me to say. We have a small place and we have only been married a few months. Its my ex's family that are SO against me having another baby.