maduabuchivictor
New member
I've been dating my girlfriend for
almost 2 months. Am 20 and she is 19, It's my first
serious relationship and her first.
We're your
average upper-middle-class
suburban kids, and neither of us
have any crazy things in our past.
In the past two months, we've
gone really slow with the
physical stuff. She's
shy and she's bad at giving
signals that initiate intimate
activity. She isn't the sort of
person to give hugs, or to cling
onto a boy. It's not that I want
those things (well, I do), but it's
that I want to feel special to her
and I can't seem to do that
without the physical stuff.
I often get upset because we can
go days without spending any
significant amount of time
together. When it
is just the two of us, she never
gives any signals either way
about kissing or even cuddling.
Basically she acts like we're just
two friends hanging out.
We've never talked about it, i really don't know what to do. I need solutions. THANKS
almost 2 months. Am 20 and she is 19, It's my first
serious relationship and her first.
We're your
average upper-middle-class
suburban kids, and neither of us
have any crazy things in our past.
In the past two months, we've
gone really slow with the
physical stuff. She's
shy and she's bad at giving
signals that initiate intimate
activity. She isn't the sort of
person to give hugs, or to cling
onto a boy. It's not that I want
those things (well, I do), but it's
that I want to feel special to her
and I can't seem to do that
without the physical stuff.
I often get upset because we can
go days without spending any
significant amount of time
together. When it
is just the two of us, she never
gives any signals either way
about kissing or even cuddling.
Basically she acts like we're just
two friends hanging out.
We've never talked about it, i really don't know what to do. I need solutions. THANKS