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alriht heres the deal, so for almost the past year 2 of my best friends have been dating, theve had their bumps but who hasnt? anyway so he recently when to A.I.T. (army training) and has been gone for about 2.5 months now and his now ex gf recently has been less than faithful, me being the good friend i am try my best to keep her from ruining the best thing that has happend to her (her words), but i got severly pissed one ni9ght and tossed a 3 year friendship down the drain. over what you ask? well what threw me over the edge is the fact that i was supposed to be her weed off with her and this guy justin (who shes been all over the last couple days) and i told her i would do it in half an hour when i dropped my gf off at home. so i was on my way to drop it off and i call her to tell her, only to find out that soon after i told her I'd drop it off she came and took it out of my car without even telling me (that just pissed me off) and i flipped out and told her not to call me anymore. now you may think thats stupid but she has also been lieing to me about sertain things just cause she thought i would get mad, and anyone who knows me, kows that if you lie to me and i find out i get severly pissed, but if you tell me i dont care(for the most part) anyway point of this, should i try to repair the damage i have done and continue to be frinds with her or just forget her?
 
I think I forgot to read a line or something, cause I didnt understand a word of that.
Anyway heres my response from what I got:

I think if the friendship has lasted for 3 years, its worth repairing. Besides, when your friend comes back from army training, he might also be pissed at you, and his gf might even dump him becasuse she feels wierd being around you. Try to repair it a.s.a.p.
 
Yeah, you really didn't need to tell us about her boyfriend and the army if the point of the story is your arguement with her.

My advice, give her fair warning not to do it again and make sure she understands that you get mad easily. try to repair things and if she has a problem with you trying to repair stuff then just say fuck it and move on.
 
If she is one of your best friends, and not "just" your friend's girlfriend, then take the time to talk with her. She should know by now how you feel about lying, but it wouldn't hurt to remind her. You could even ask why she's lying, when she should know you won't accept it. Remind her that communication is a two way street, and if she expects to hear the truth from you, then she needs to reciprocate.

Not even going to go near the subject of her maybe not being true to your friend in Army training. Being in the middle of that type of situation will be rough for all of you.
 
No one can answer this for you but yourself.

Does your friendship mean enough for you to make up? Then, yes. If not, then no.

You would think this stuff would be common sense to most. heh. oh, well.
 
wow, that was a little hard to read. But anyway, I say let things just lay low for now. Either enough time will pass that you start to hang out again, or it doesn't. I say let the chips lie where they may. Good luck with everything.
 
Either have sex with her then get rid of her or just get rid of her. Either way she is damaged goods. If she can't handle her now ex? boyfriend being gone for AIT training then she would flip the fuck out when he gets stationed in Iraq for a year or two. He/you/all of you would be better off without her... the quicker the better... and if you can get some ass out of it then Kudos.
 
well im sorry it was hard to read i was stoned when i typed it, but the reason i mentiopns my friend in the army is because of her unfaithfulness is one of the things that pissed me off, and they broke up already btw. anyway this thread can be scrapped thanks for all your advice, but it worked its self out kinda. and to cryptrocket i have slept with her, and i get sex even when im not in the mood(yes guys can be not in the mood as well). like today for instence i was half alseep and my gf got on me and had her way with me, so meh.
 
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