Yes, it was quite the kick in the nuts. But I saw her today after her follow-up appt. She told me she made the decision a week ago to have the baby (I don't know why she didn't tell me a week ago, but I guess it's best that she didn't... considering), and then this happens. She feels guilty, and there is not a goddamn thing I can do to assuage that. So not only am I hurting from the loss, I feel fucking helpless too. I worry for her, but I have no idea how to handle it, because I'm lost myself.
But, we talked about it (well, as well as a weeping woman could talk anyway), and we decided that, when the time is right, we're going to give it another shot. :thumbsup: