I hang out in 2 groups of girls and they both really hate my crush. Yesterday i was out with one of the groups and about 8 of them just started insulting my crush, obviously behind her back. They don't know i fancy her because, only 2 of them know i like girls. They were so harsh with some of the things they said., i feel really upset.
But i feel so soo bad, Its unbelievable. i didn't say anything when they were talking about her. I feel like i shouldn't fancy her because everyone hates her. But i really like her and i don't know what to do. What should i say when my friends start ripping her apart? I've tryed everyday to catch her by herself to talk to her (you know cause i fancy her) but i fail every time cause we're never both alone at the same time.
Also can i just say my friends hate her because she's a lesbian, and very androgynous. They have never even spoken to her. What should i do about my friends and also any help with talking to this girl.
I'm 16 years old, girl and lesbian
But i feel so soo bad, Its unbelievable. i didn't say anything when they were talking about her. I feel like i shouldn't fancy her because everyone hates her. But i really like her and i don't know what to do. What should i say when my friends start ripping her apart? I've tryed everyday to catch her by herself to talk to her (you know cause i fancy her) but i fail every time cause we're never both alone at the same time.
Also can i just say my friends hate her because she's a lesbian, and very androgynous. They have never even spoken to her. What should i do about my friends and also any help with talking to this girl.
I'm 16 years old, girl and lesbian