I'm usually insecure about my friendships, but this time, I know I'm not wrong. My "friends" made it crystal clear to me that they don't consider me a friend. I never get asked what I want to do, I never get asked to join them, I only get told what they're doing (if they remember to tell me). My boyfriend is best friends with them too. A friend of my "friend"/roommate arrived 2 weeks ago. It was since mentioned in a conversation that she is now part of the group - my name wasn't mentioned in the listing of everyone. In fact, I was the only person at the table whose name wasn't mentioned. My boyfriend has tried being nice about it, but says I take everything too seriously. Just because I dont find it funny to rip into and tease my friends ALL the time I see them. I dont know if I'm crazy, but friends dont always try to make each other feel like $&^%. Dont get me wrong, I love a good tease as much as anyone else, but it's constant. I know I shouldn't be hurt, and just realize that they aren't good friends, but it still hurts every time my boyfriend hangs out with them, and I don't even get asked. How do I deal with it? My whole thing is that, if your friends don't like your girlfriend, something has to give. I would never ask him to not hang out with them, they are his friends, just, apparently, not mine. It just sucks, because we're living in taiwan, away from all my friends at home. I've never not had friends, never not been liked before, never had my caring about my friends been seen as a bad thing before...
What do I do?
What do I do?