Friend hates my boyfriend, what to do in this weird scene?

Abielle

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I was out of the country for a week, now I'm back. My friend postponed her birthday party, so I can come and she asked I don't bring my boyfriend, because she hates him.
My boyfriend got really upset because of this, he didn't comment though on this subject, but I don't know what to do! I feel really bad, because while I was out of the country, he lost his job and some other bad stuff happened. A kind of chain of misfortunes.
Am I an ass for going to give her the present? She favored me and pushed him out of the picture.

She hates him because he made me cry at my birthday. He got drunk and was an ass. And because we once got drunk at a concert and had a really bad fight, where we beat up each other. It was really hard, we got over that and nothing like that ever happened again. All is really calm now, been fine for more than half a year, but everybody hates him, because we fought.
 
Sorry but from what I hear she has a right to hate him. You should really leave their relationship be I think. Cos she wont stop hating him just because you want her to. She can pretend but it wont be the same. Don't choose you boyfriend over your friends either. That would be a stupid thing to do. Just be with your friends when your boyfriends not there and be with your boyfriend when your friends aren't there.
 
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