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Yeah, so you probably heard this a lot, but I seriously need some advice. For the past two years, I've been in this group of friends, like 10 girls & I'm the 11th. Up until last year, we used to do EVERYTHING together, like we literally never separated. We hung out during school together, we planned our weekends together. Everyone was nice to everyone else, and whatever happened, we stuck through it. It might sound cheesy, but anybody would ask for friends like them. I loved them all and they were just amazing people. They had your back anytime and they were just really good people. Coming to this year, our senior year in high school, 3 months after school started, things were changing drastically.
I, personally, got closer to one of the girls. We hung out a lot, and now we're closer than ever. We do everything together including our studies and I really love her. The issue is, we became two groups all of a sudden. This weird group was forming with people who weren't even close to begin with. I mean, with such a huge group, definitely not everyone would be close to everyone else , some of them would gossip about the rest and all that. Now 5 girls from our group completely detached themselves from us. With no valid reason, I mean we didn't even have a fight for God's sake. They just sit at different tables during recess, and in class they barely talk to the rest of us, the other 5 girls and me. They always do things together (parties, gatherings, plans) and they don't invite us, and then we find out later. They're absolutely rude, and they only talk to us when they need something from us. What's killing me is that ALL of these 5 girls were really close to me, some of them were what I would call "best friends". Now, suddenly, things have changed.
The group I'm in is the nice group. The girl I got close to is with me, and some other girls who I wasn't even close with in the first place. They're really nice and very polite, and they all noticed the drama that's happening. I'm kinda stuck in the middle. It's like both groups want me to be with them, but just because I hang out with my friend, who speaks her mind and doesn't give a sh*t what they think, they don't talk to me. They're even nice to me, while they're very rude to her. They always scream at her and treat her like a piece of crap.
I would never give up her friendship. She is an amazing person and I love her too much to let her go, but at the same time those other 5 are close to me too, and it hurts seeing them that way, ignoring us for some reasons nobody knows about. I feel really depressed because of this whole drama. I'm lost, so please if anyone can give me some advice on what to do. I would appreciate it. Thanks a lot.
Yeah, so you probably heard this a lot, but I seriously need some advice. For the past two years, I've been in this group of friends, like 10 girls & I'm the 11th. Up until last year, we used to do EVERYTHING together, like we literally never separated. We hung out during school together, we planned our weekends together. Everyone was nice to everyone else, and whatever happened, we stuck through it. It might sound cheesy, but anybody would ask for friends like them. I loved them all and they were just amazing people. They had your back anytime and they were just really good people. Coming to this year, our senior year in high school, 3 months after school started, things were changing drastically.
I, personally, got closer to one of the girls. We hung out a lot, and now we're closer than ever. We do everything together including our studies and I really love her. The issue is, we became two groups all of a sudden. This weird group was forming with people who weren't even close to begin with. I mean, with such a huge group, definitely not everyone would be close to everyone else , some of them would gossip about the rest and all that. Now 5 girls from our group completely detached themselves from us. With no valid reason, I mean we didn't even have a fight for God's sake. They just sit at different tables during recess, and in class they barely talk to the rest of us, the other 5 girls and me. They always do things together (parties, gatherings, plans) and they don't invite us, and then we find out later. They're absolutely rude, and they only talk to us when they need something from us. What's killing me is that ALL of these 5 girls were really close to me, some of them were what I would call "best friends". Now, suddenly, things have changed.
The group I'm in is the nice group. The girl I got close to is with me, and some other girls who I wasn't even close with in the first place. They're really nice and very polite, and they all noticed the drama that's happening. I'm kinda stuck in the middle. It's like both groups want me to be with them, but just because I hang out with my friend, who speaks her mind and doesn't give a sh*t what they think, they don't talk to me. They're even nice to me, while they're very rude to her. They always scream at her and treat her like a piece of crap.
I would never give up her friendship. She is an amazing person and I love her too much to let her go, but at the same time those other 5 are close to me too, and it hurts seeing them that way, ignoring us for some reasons nobody knows about. I feel really depressed because of this whole drama. I'm lost, so please if anyone can give me some advice on what to do. I would appreciate it. Thanks a lot.